By Theresa Crabtree
MAYAN MESSAGE DAY 103
Akbal 12 Go Within or Go Without
Good day. I am Akbal 12. At this time, we would like to share with you some teachings regarding the way you hold yourself. By this, we mean the way you walk, your posture, the way you dress and the manner in which you speak. The way you present yourself to others speaks volumes regarding who you are inside. There is an old adage that says, “As above, so below.” We say there is another that is equally true, “Go within, or go without.”
Do you have any friends you trust who speaks honestly with you? You may wish to ask them how others tend to perceive you. Do others see you as warm and someone they can entrust their secrets to? Do you have an air of confidence? Do you dress in a manner that makes you feel good? How about your hair, do you wear it in a style that becomes you? If you would like to add a little adventure in your life, try asking strangers what type of character you portray. Are you open or elusive? Do you speak kindly to others? Do you have an air of inferiority or superiority?
When others share their problems with you, are you one who has all the answers or gives unsolicited advice? Do you listen to what they are saying without interrupting? Do they want advice or just a listening ear; do you know how to tell the difference? Are you one who takes control in every situation or one who sits back and waits until asked for help? There is nothing wrong with any of these choices, unless you are imposing on another’s free will.
The way you dress, the manner in which you speak and the way you hold your body are learned behaviors. Have you taken time to pay attention to why you choose certain colors of clothing or the style of clothes you wear? Are you comfortable in your clothes or choose items because it is what you feel society expects? If there is something in your outward appearance that you find disdainful or lacking, be assured there is an inward root cause. Go inside to find how the behavior first started, if possible.
As you look at yourself in the mirror, pay close attention to every detail of the way you present yourself to others. Starting from head to toe, look at everything: your hair (or lack of hair), make-up (or lack of make-up), jewelry, clothing styles and colors, shoes, why you do or do not shave various parts of your body, tattoos, nails (manicured or not, painted or unpainted), perfume or cologne, beauty products, etc.
As you look at each detail, take time to notice how each makes you feel. If you like the effect, then keep it. If you don’t like the effect, then make the conscious choice to change it and take the steps to do so. You may find it interesting to discover the various reasons why you have developed these patterns. Do the same with your wardrobe, then go through your home and do the same with each item. Keep the items that give you a warm feeling.
By surrounding yourself with items and clothing that uplifts you, your energy will be uplifted, as well. Possessions have a way of bogging people down and enslaving them. Many times, people’s identity is associated with their possessions. Each item you allow into your personal space carries energy with it. The energy comes from those who manufactured the item, those who have handled it, as well as your reaction to the item based on any memories it brings to the surface.
Purge your environment from any items that bring up bad memories. Take time to look at the memory and heal the situation. When you can look at all things without judgment or feeling any emotional reaction, you are well on your way to living a life of pure joy. We are not suggesting you bury or deny any feelings that arise.
We are suggesting that by healing your past wounds and choosing to look on the positive side of all things, the joy in your life will abound. Emotions are choices. If you respond in ways you do not like, then change your attitude by healing the issue that arises when you have that emotion.
Surround yourself with items and people that bring you joy. Learn to take back your time and energy by saying “no” to things that do not move you toward your goals. Let go of all emotions that bring your energy level down. Face your past hurts and forgive yourself and all others involved. Release any feelings of being victimized or wronged, for those labels will keep you in a cycle of wanting and neediness. Many wait decades for others to apologize or undo their wrongs before allowing themselves to move on. In the meantime, they shut down joy and tend to project their feelings of mistrust, hurt, anger and such onto others.
The victim mentality can easily spiral out of control, as well as other feelings of injustice. This belief then permeates all relationships. Trust and doubt come to the forefront and stops unconditional love from blossoming. This can easily be seen in many relationships. If someone hurts another by telling a secret, committing adultery or gossiping to others, it is difficult for the one who feels like a victim to be able to go into loving and trusting relationships with others, for they are always expecting or looking for the new partner to do the same.
It is important for parents to be honest with their children. Trusting others is an important foundation that begins at birth. Overprotective parents who don’t allow their children to falter along the way inhibit the child from learning to trust himself. As the child moves beyond the family circle, he is likely to meet others who will say and do things that are not kind and undermine his self-esteem. When a child is gifted with a good foundation of trust and given the assurance that no matter what choices he makes, he is still of value, he will be better equipped to handle the unkind words of others, knowing that he is still a capable and loving Human Being.
Look closely at any issues of trust that burden you today. Seek out the root cause and change the behaviors, emotions and belief codes they were built upon. Trust your judgment when it comes to every aspect of your life, whether it is your clothing, where you live, how you support yourself, your material possessions or your associates.
Many of you have never given conscious thought to why you choose many of the things you say and do. In order to be authentic, you will need to make conscious decisions of who you are within and how you will present yourself to others without.
Go within or go without!
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Mayan Messages ~ Go Within or Go Without
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